I think it is truly, really very important to try and see the best in people who we contact with. It helps them be better. Otherwise we remain victims of the vicious circle when we see in people the things that we do not like and these very things we have but do not see or refuse to see. When there is something that irritates me in other person`s behaviour I try to analyse what is it and where is it in me. See it, realize the fact, then relax and move on to the things that inspire me in that very person.